Gabriel Paul “Gabe” Remy

Gabriel Paul “Gabe” Remy, age 18, passed away suddenly from complications of an enlarged spleen due to an acute illness; cherished son of Steve and Terry, nee Malloy; beloved brother of Nicole (Chris) Zajchowski, Stephanie (Rosario) Spaccaferro, Sam (fiancee Alexzandra Jaskolka), Danielle (fiancé Matthew Tauaese), Steven and Kellyanne Remy; loving uncle of Elizabeth and Caroline Spaccaferro; dear grandson of Paul and the late Anna Remy and the late Jim and Shirley Malloy; fond nephew of Paul (Vicki) Remy, Barb Remy, Mary (Mark) Schwartz, Lisa (Dan) Vitale and the late Dennis (Diana) and Eric (Annette) Malloy; dear cousin of the Remy, Schwartz, Vitale, Malloy, Jessup and Elle families; devoted boyfriend of Hannah Johnson; Chicago Fury U18 teammate of many. Visitation Thursday, 2:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. at Gibbons Funeral Home, 134 South York Road, (½ mile North of Saint Charles Road), Elmhurst. Friends and family will meet for a Mass of Christian Burial, Friday, 9:30 a.m. at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church, 134 Arthur Street, Elmhurst. Interment Private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Gabe’s memory to Misericordia Heart of Mercy, 6300 North Ridge, Chicago, IL 60660 or IC Catholic Prep, 217 Cottage Hill Avenue, Elmhurst, IL 60126. For funeral information please call 630-832-0018 or

Memorial Service Program





2:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m.
Gibbons Funeral Home
134 South York Road
Elmhurst, IL 60126






9:30 a.m. at
Immaculate Conception Catholic Church
134 Arthur Street
Elmhurst, IL 60126




In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Gabe’s memory to

Misericordia Heart of Mercy, 6300 North Ridge, Chicago, IL 60660


IC Catholic Prep, 217 Cottage Hill Avenue, Elmhurst, IL 60126.

24 comments on “Gabriel Paul “Gabe” Remy
  1. The Eric De Bord Family says:

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the Remy Family. God Speed, Gabe.

  2. Vicki Moore says:

    I am so sorry to hear this news. May all the beautiful memories you gathered through the years bring you some peace during this very difficult time. My thoughts are with the entire family on the loss of their beloved Gabe.

  3. Annette and Ken Filpi says:

    My love for all of you means our hearts are broken with yours. The immense void between Heaven and earth grows with each passing loved one.
    May the promise of the empty tomb bring hope and peace to your hurting hearts.
    Praying for you all.❤️

  4. Gladys says:

    Praying for you and your family Sam – praying that God gives you strength in your time of sorrow. Gladys

  5. Bob Walsh says:

    Steve and Family,
    We are so very sorry.
    God Bless him and all of you.

  6. April Parham says:

    Sending sincerest condolences during this difficult time. May God hold your son in his loving arms and give you the strength to continue on. Sending heartfelt condolences from a North Stars hockey family. Sincerely Parham’s

  7. Celia brown says:

    Sending love and and support to you all. Gabe will be forever missed.
    Celia, Richard, and Andrew

  8. Barb Ceas (Lynda's Mom) says:

    My heart is breaking for you. Love and Hugs all around in this sad time.

  9. Molly Galvin says:

    Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers go out to Terry, Steve and the extended Remy family on the loss of your beloved Gabe. He has a permanent place in your heart. May Gabe’s bright light continue to shine on all of you and give you strength. Rest in Peace Gabe. Sending love & hugs from the Galvin family

  10. Teresa Orzelek says:

    Dear Steve and Terry,

    I am terribly sorry to hear about the passing of your son Gabriel. Please accept my deepest and heartfelt condolences. My prayers are with you and family.

    Teresa Orzelek

  11. Laura Grundy (Dr. Lovelace's receptionist) says:

    Mr. and Mrs. Remy, I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.

  12. Susan Kelly says:

    Remy Family, so incredibly sorry for your loss of Gabe. He sounded like a really wonderful young man. Our prayers are with you at this time.
    John & Susan Kelly and family

  13. Fr. Gerald Riva says:

    Please accept my regards for your son. He and all of your family are in my prayer and masses.
    You all are loved.

  14. Chuck & Nancy Wallace says:

    Our sincere condolences to you and your family. Our prayers will be with you for peace and comfort, and for Gabe’s eternal rest.
    Chuck & Nancy Wallace

  15. Milka says:

    The Remy Family: My condolences to the whole family. I know that heaven’s gates are open for Gabe. Gabe’s legacy and spirit lives on forever with the family and friends. Memory Eternal

    Milka Ahlstrand

  16. Suzanne Halpin says:

    My heart goes out to the Remy Family, love and prayers, Sue Halpin

  17. Rich & Barb Guzzardi says:

    Our deepest Sympathy to all of you. Our continued Prayers and Thoughts will be with you. The Guzzardi’ s

  18. Leslie Santiago says:

    “When we worship God in our grief and declare him worthy of our trust, even in our deepest sorrows — when we choose to rest in his goodness and sovereignty, even when our circumstances feel hopeless — we bring glory to his name. Having hope doesn’t mean we won’t grieve. Having hope means we grieve with the confidence that God “will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you” (1 Peter 5:10).”-Sarah Walton

    Praying that the peace that surpasses all understanding that can only come from above, would comfort, strengthen and fill your hearts with hope during this difficult time.

    -Leslie Santiago

  19. WILLIAM JESSUP says:

    Steve Terry & Family
    I am so very sorry for your loss there are no words that I or anyone can say to ease the heartbreak, pain & sadness you are going through. My memories of Gabe were only of his first 6 years and my recollection of him were that of a happy, well mannered , fear nothing little boy who obviously grew up into the young man that he became.
    Again I really am so very sorry for what you and the entire family is going through
    I just wish there was something I could do to take this pain away.

    I love & respect you always

    Bill Jessup

  20. Elsioe Gogola says:

    My heart goes out to all of you in this unbelievable time of your life. I am a grandmother of two IC Catholic grads and also of a granddaughter who will graduate in 2020 so know this tight community will be a solace to everyone who have been associated with the school. My sincere condolences.

  21. Sharon says:

    Dear Remy family:
    We are the Remys in CA; not sure if there is any relation. My heart breaks to read the news about Gabe. I pray the Lord’s loving presence will sustain you, comfort you, and that He will give you what no other can give: peace that passes all understanding.

  22. Gary Bristow says:

    Steve, Terry & Family, l am so sorry to hear about Gabe’s passing. I know you were proud of him and I will keep him in my prayers as well as you and your family.

  23. Nancy & Tom Shonts says:

    Dear Terry and Steve and Family, So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Nancy & Tom Shonts

  24. Julie Iuorio says:

    Terry, I am so very sorry. I watched Gabe’s video and my heart just aches for you. I pray that God gives you rest from your grief and more and more peace as time goes on. Julie (your Mis waitress friend.)

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